I'd posted earlier that all of the Walker girls are visiting with us for what is now nearly three weeks. While they got along well for about 10 days, Madison (15) and Reese (13) are now at odds with each other - a common occurrence when they lived together and between siblings in general. I had a brief discussion with each of them about sibling relationships then decided to send them a short story to think about - if not now, perhaps will have a positive impact someday. Thought I'd share it with you as well.
"There
was once a five year old boy who was an only child and the apple of his parents and next door grandparents eyes, when along came a baby sister. Whether
it was the age difference or jealousy from the boy at losing his favored only
child status, he and his sister didn’t have a lot to do with one another while
growing up.
Eventually
the boy went off to build his life several hundred miles away, with a job and a
family and the girl did the same but in the hometown. As a result the boy and girl would see each
other every year or so when the boy returned to visit with the parents.
The
years passed and the boy and girl continued to see each other during these
parental visits and their relationship could best be described as they were good
acquaintances - they were never really friends.
When
the boy was nearly 50, he realized that it might not be long before they were
the only family members remaining and the he decided to reach out to the girl
and she turned out to be receptive. They
had many long talks about their childhood, their lives, and their feelings for
each other – the girl never liked the boy (he could be a jerk). After a year or so of visits and phone calls
the relationship continued to develop, they both liked what was happening
between them, and both regretted the lost years they could have had together.
Then
disaster struck as the girl was diagnosed with stage four cancer. While the relationship was still good, it was
hard to build much as the girl spent most of her time battling the disease,
they lived 600 miles apart, and both had jobs.
The girl fought the disease for five years and the boy spent as
much time with her as possible even moving her to his home for a few months at
one point.
After the five years, the girl was about to lose the battle and as the boy was lamenting
the lost time with her, the girl replied “no regrets big brother, these last
few years have been great between us.”
After this and the loss of their mother with things left undone and words
left unsaid, the boy decided he would never again lose a person important to
him without keeping any relationship junk cleaned up at all times.
I am
that boy and the entire family is gone but me.
Oh the things I wish I could have redone."
Have
a great day and thanks for stopping by Almost Heaven South.
Larry